car will not start

I had the same prob with my 95 it has a relay about where your left knee is sitting in the car, there are 2 in this block one the starter other i think is the fuel pump. the problem is with the security system, and mine is intermittent. but if you wait 3 minutes the system resets itself and will start. Now I was thinking of just installing a small push button to bypass this relay, but after I replaced the relay it has not failed.. so .. ? good luck  

check the ecu plugs for corrosion ?